Monday, February 14, 2011

Why don't the Family Research Council support actual family issues?

In the realm of much ado about nothing but it may mean something comes this item from the Family Research Council:

In a statement released this morning, Rep. Randy Forbes (R-Va.) introduced legislation that will protect the integrity of parent relationships between mothers, fathers, and their children.  This comes in light of the State Department announcing that it would be changing the passport applications to be “gender neutral” by replacing “mother” and “father” with “Parent 1” and “Parent 2.”

H.R. 635, Rep. Forbes’s bill, would require that all federal agencies use the words “mother” and “father” when describing parents in official documents and forms.  Forbes said:
“Symbolism is important and this legislation seeks to preserve the sacred relationship mothers and fathers share with their children.  Referring to parents as “Parent 1” or “Parent 2” on official government documentation is a bureaucratic attempt to redefine traditional parent roles.  These subtle, but nonetheless significant, changes undermine the traditional American family relationships that have served as the bedrock of our nation since its inception.”
However, there is a question that remains.  Why is the Obama Administration forcing the need for such legislation?  After all, traditional family values should be accepted and encouraged in our society.

Notice the semantics here. The Obama Administration is "forcing the need for the legislation." And nowhere in FRC's writings is there an acknowledgment of same-sex households.

Personally I don't see the problem with the "Parent 1" and "Parent 2" label. It is merely a change to underscore the fact that not all families have the "mother/father" image. I refuse to use the word "traditional families" because the phrase is a nonsequitir, i.e. something obviously thought up in a boardroom as a way to allow organizations like FRC to avoid having to mention same-sex households while making themselves sound like heroes for defending so-called "traditional morality."

And FRC - and Forbes - underscores just how much they don't care about families at all in this useless fight.

In 2003 the Gay and Lesbian Task Force came out with a report showing that while organizations like the Family Research Council claim to support marriage and the family, their focus is not on issues that would protect the family:

The Family Research Council, a $10 million-a-year group that “shapes public debate and formulates public policy that values human life and upholds the institutions of marriage and the family,” had 203 documents on its website containing the word “homosexual,” only 39 containing the word “divorce,” 37 with “poverty,” 26 with the words “domestic violence,” 18 with the words “health insurance,” and only two with the words “child support.”

Eight years later, I doubt things have changed.

Forbes's bill is nothing but useless symbolism. As for FRC, they don't care how many families are this close to the soup lines and  poor houses.

Just that those families fit the "mother /father" classification.



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2 comments:

Journey into Love said...

What about kids who have guardians and not parents? Did FRC ever think about that?? That's what blows my mind, is that unless you have a mother and a father they don't consider you a family. To hell (and I'm sure that's what they are literally saying under their breath) with widows or widowers, to hell with single moms or single dads who escaped an abusive marriage with their very lives. Here's another kink in their logic - they are anti-abortion, so when a woman is raped she is supposed to keep the child, yet if she does that the FRC doesn't want to recognize her and her child as a family. Well I suppose in their mind she was probably asking for it, after all women are to blame for the world's ills - it all started with Eve.

Anonymous said...

They really need to change their names to heterosexual caucasion family council. None of their actions support families.